Back pain seems to run in my family. As a child, I remember my father in the late 70’s trying to push our van that had veered off the road into a snow bank. He herniated a disc trying to push it out and he had to fly home by himself while my mother finished our week long road trip across the country by herself with 3 kids.
I was very active in high school playing soccer and doing competitive cheerleading and dance. By the time I graduated from college though, it was off to the typical desk job where I sat for my 40+ hours a week. My father had retired and suddenly his back pain problems had disappeared after suffering in his desk job for 25 years. Little did I know, that mine were just about to begin. My father’s retired job was working at a golf course and he was going to teach me how to play. I was ‘over-swinging’ while I was trying to learn how to whack the ball hard. I ended up herniating a disc and I remember the exact feeling when it happened. I had a hot feeling in a back and it started to ache immediately. I had no idea what pain I was in for because it doesn’t all happen at one time. Over the course of several weeks, the pain started to get worse. I wasn’t able to wear my high heels to work anymore and I slowly started limping because my sciatic leg pain was so bad. I was forced to stand at my desk for 8 hours at work because I found it impossible to sit down. Driving was excruciating, living was excruciating and trying to but on a ‘nice’ face was impossible. I started with a doctor’s appointment which led to an MRI. They found a disc herniation at the L4/L5 level. I was off to physical therapy where they put me in a stretching machine which absolutely made it worse to the point I could barely walk afterwards. After no relief from this, I was sent for cortisone shots and that also did nothing. It had been a good 8 months since my herniation and working was getting close to impossible so I was impatient for a solution. The next step was a neurosurgeon to discuss open back surgery. I made the hospital appointment to have the surgery over the Christmas holiday so I wouldn’t miss so much work. During those 2 months, I was given nerve blocks to allow me to continue working but they did little for my chronic pain.
I had surgery in November 2000 by a Dr. Ho. He was the brother of the man who sang ‘tiny bubbles’ if you are old enough to know who that was. He said I had a considerable herniation and also some bone fragments irritating my sciatic nerve. Recovering from surgery those first few days was just awful but by the 3rd day in the hospital I was able to get up and move around. I had 6 weeks off at home of taking it easy and definitely started to feel like my old self again. I thought I was cured! Back then it was not common to Google your condition to find out what was wrong with you and how to fix it. I also did not understand how complex the back is and that having one surgery may lead to other surgeries down the road. I was 28 and feeling good but that time was short.
I went back to work like normal and was back in my power suits and high heels. In 2002 I took a job transfer and moved to Europe. This is where the next set of my problems began. I had several moves where I was left by myself to unpack boxes and move myself in. After meeting my now husband, I did another move to the UK for a second job transfer. I tried to move around furniture myself since we didn’t have anyone to help us. I had a flare up again like I hadn’t experienced in a long time. At the time I didn’t know what it was, but I met a guy through a massage therapist that practiced ART (active release technique). He told me I had a severe pelvic tilt and it was causing my back to go in spasm which was then irritating the nerves in my back. Through manipulation, stretching and releasing the spasm, I was able to correct my pelvic tilt and realign my spine. I was feeling good again and thought my problems were behind me. Six weeks later I found I was pregnant. This created a whole new set of problems for me to be 35 and with back problems.
After a very painful and difficult pregnancy, I had a loose SI joint, severe DDD, bursitis in my IT band and hips and spasms in my piriformis muscle causing terrible sciatic nerve pain. At the time, I was trying to get it all under control without knowing exactly what was wrong with me while trying to deal with a new baby. Shortly after my daughter was born, I got her stroller stuck in a heavy metal door while trying to leave a doctor’s appt. This was London, where there are no elevators and going out always involves heavy lifting of babies and all their ‘kit’ up and down stairs. When I got the stroller stuck in the door, I yanked hard on it and immediately felt that same hot burning sensation in my back with an instant backache similar to what I had had so many years ago. The pain continued over the weeks and just didn’t go away. I had another MRI and it was confirmed to be an annular tear at the L5/S1 level with severe DDD.
It is almost 4 years since that incident and I still haven’t managed to solve my daily chronic pain. I have had facet injections, cortisone injections, acupuncture, physical therapy, Pilates, rhizotomy’s on both sides, a nucleoplasty, prolotherapy, TENS machines, hormone therapy and like the rest of you, a conversation with a Florida clinic that said it could solve all my back pain problems.
I am in my second round of trying intense prolotherapy. I have searched high and low on the web trying to find out information on this procedure but of course it is all written pretty much by one doctor (Dr. Hauser in Chicago). I have my own experiences and because I have only finished my 2nd session, I will continue to update any followers on how I progress.
I will continue to write about my experiences and recommendations with a lot of these techniques. Some are helpful, others are useless. I know each person’s experience may be different but I do think there are clues in your body that will help you determine what is best for you. Thanks for listening…